Dear 'Scared to talk', I think you may be overreacting or at least misreading Dr.B a little bit. I have seen many of his past postings and somesimes he does come across a little strong, but it may well be just his way of dealing with what HE considers questionable or rash remarks or acts by others. I do agree that it is counter productive to make harsh statements or threats, no matter what the real intention. Dr.B has made some very good suggestions in the past, and at least I haven't seen where he resorted to foul language! And I hope he won't do that.

Perhaps Dr.B, if you read this, you will recognize that while we all enjoy this forum, no one should be judgemental in this environment because if you actually do the things discussed here, likely you are breaking a law ,at least in most countries you are,. So perhaps a little restraint may be in order here OK? After all, this is simply a place where people with similar ,not identical, interests can meet and share ideas and experiences. I personally do not use ANY so-called 'recreational drugs' whatsoever, but you must remember that this is the 'world wide' internet and many people using this media do use such. It is their choice, we ,you and I alike, have no right to critcize them any more than you want to be criticized!

I don't think anyone really wants you to go away, but you really could do a little to aleviate some of the anxiety you seem to have generated. Just remember, no one wishes evil on you and it does not become you if you come accross as self-righteous or judgemental. You certainly do have a right to your opinions, but sometimes it may be a good idea to not share them in every case.

I recall an apology you posted awhile back, and frankly I don't see why the incident arose in the first place. The individual may very well have been all you said, but! This is not the place to right all the wrongs of the world. There is just too many of them. So again, lets all just get along and enjoy the one thing we DO have in common, 'stillin'!
Spiritmaker